“A TPGA community member recently asked us what we thought of the McSweeney’s post An Open Letter To Anyone Who Has Experienced My Son’s Meltdowns, which is (obviously) written from a parent’s perspective. Well, we were mostly sad. McSweeney’s is typically a delight, but we consider the letter to be yet another example of How The Progressive Media Sells Out Autistic People. So we asked Sparrow Rose Jones, an autistic writer, to come up with an autistic perspective version.
We hope you’ll find Sparrow’s letter useful, and will leave copies atop the keyboards or devices of those who need to read it.”
Here is a good resource from the Thinking Autism Guide.